Some People You Find. Some You're Born With
I have written on this blog about the world; about inequality, about empathy, about the kind of people who show up fully and the rarity of finding them. Today I am writing about one person specifically. The one who made me believe all of those things were worth writing about in the first place. This is for my sister. I Am Because She Is There is no cleaner way to say it than that. Not because I don't exist independently. Not because I can't stand on my own. But because who I am. The parts of me I am most proud of, the version of myself I return to when I've drifted, was shaped in the presence of another person. Reflected back at me. Held up even when I couldn't hold it myself. That person is Nathalie. She is my twin, my best friend, and the only human being on earth who has been present for every chapter of my life without exception. Not just the highlight reel. All of it. The things I would tell anyone, and the things I would tell almost no one. People talk about findi...